2019 is here

 

Hi all, happy slightly belated new year. Just a bit of information to get you up to date First a couple of a couple of shouts outs Many thanks to Christina Green for donating wool for me to make blankets. I have finished the first one and will be handing it on soon. If anyone else has any spare wool it is always appreciated and I can get item directly to people who need them.

 

Many thanks to a close friend of mine who donated 25 handmade cards and mince pies but does not wish to be named. We handed out 21 in one day and made a lot of people smile in the process. Read about it here - Personal Experiences

 

This year I hope to interview some local service and put the information on the site. Please let me know of any other services that can go on the site also.

 

I am going to be re-arranging the news page a little this week (and poss a bit longer depending on how much time I get) so please bare with me if there is an odd link that does not work. Let me know and I will sort it asap.

 

Last but not least thanks for everyone's support for viewing this site and taking an interest. We are over 400 views, let's aim for over 1'000 this year.

Annette (site founder)

We are on Facebook.

 

Many thanks to my good friend Faith who has created a Facebook page for the site. Check out

 

//www.facebook.com/Be-a-friendly-face-229895467815257/  

 

and get in touch. I would love to be able to add other people’s experiences to the site as well as my own.

 

The following e mail can also be used to pass on information that could be used on the site or just to get in touch to say hi.

 

abmathshelp@yahoo.co.uk

 

Thanks for reading

How it started

 

Sorry if this is a bit long, but I wanted to fully explain how the idea came about. So, please bear with me (and feel free to grab a brew).

 

I used to stop briefly and chat to/buy coffee and a sausage roll for a homeless person when I was in town and more regularly for whoever was sat outside my local Co-op. However, after a while, I started to feel more and more overwhelmed by the number of homeless people I could see, even in a small area. I didn’t want to buy food for just one person and ignore the others, but there was no way I could afford to buy for that many people.

 

One rainy morning at 2 am, I had a crazy urge to walk to the Co-op to go and buy cigarettes. (I've no idea why, I never normally bother go to the shop just for cigs at that time of the morning, especially in the rain!). Outside the shop, I saw the form of a person trying to keep dry in a phone box. I walked over, not sure what to say but wanting to say something. Have you ever had one of those moments where your brain fails to work and your mouth works on it own? That’s what happened here. I knocked on the door of the phone box and when he answers, what I blurt out is, “Good job you don’t have a sunroof..”.

 

Thankfully, he laughs. I buy him a sandwich and a hot drink.

 

I saw him a few times after that and we often chatted. Sometimes he volunteers to look after my dog while I go into the shop. If I happen to have a seizure, he will sit with me while I come around. I usually keep a look out for him in the area, and he calls to me if he sees me.

 

I feel we’re forming the basis of a friendship, and as I get to know him as an individual, I notice the entire time he's never asked me for money.

 

After a while he disappears. I ask around for him and in the process start talking to other homeless people, getting to know their names and (importantly) getting to know them as individuals.

 

That's when the idea for this site started.

 

I know the frustration of feeling there is nothing you can do to help. I also know that many people would like to help if they knew what to do. So I came up with the idea of this site.

 

I hope you find it useful.

About the founder

My name is Annette and welcome to Be A Friendly Face. Please forgive the current sparseness, as at the moment it is a work in progress.

 

Be A Friendly Face is not a charity. I am one person acting individually, offering practical ways that anyone can help. I hope to build the site into a database of resources along with positive stories from myself and (hopefully) others.

 

Please feel free to get in touch with ideas and suggestions. Our Facebook page is now live. Or e mail

abmathshelp@yahoo.co.uk